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Jasbina Ahluwalia April 24, 2012 at 7:50 am Reply "You Can Only Control You"--so resonates, Marrie! Myth about fighting can definitely be sinister--fighting can actually strengthen marriages if done in healthy, respectful ways:-).

Sassy Divorcee April 24, 2012 at 2:29 pm Reply Oh DIP, how I love thee! Thank you for writing such a frank article that also manages not to depress! You balance that bit of reality slap with a "it's not actually so bad ya know" candour that I love. If I had just discussed these points with my STBX before the wedding I wouldn't be getting divorced right now...because I would never have been married. I am handing this list to any and all future husband candidates! Sassy Divorcee recently posted...Resist the temptation to hide under a rock.My Profile

Megan May 18, 2012 at 9:42 am Reply I think I might have my first crush on a girl, Marrie you ROCK :D I have read a few of your other pieces today, and I loved them as well. Keep up the awesomeness!

lifestyle choice on me or hold others to a different standard than they hold themselves. The problem that I see occurring with the oversexualization of American culture are that people are trying desperately to be something they're not; some spoon fed ideal of what it means to be a sexually confident/pro-sexual person. Sexual confidence has nothing to do with how many people you fuck but has everything to do with having sex on your own terms...with whomever, whenever, and however you feel is right for you and your consenting partner. You can be a virgin and still be sexually confident and pro-sexual. It's your mind {thought process and opinions} that define these terms, not the number of notches on your bedpost. Your comments are always appreciated! Thank you for stopping by and taking the time to share :)

Mike January 25, 2014 at 10:49 pm Reply Five partners in what time frame?

Marrie January 28, 2014 at 9:09 am Reply Not that it should matter...3 years!